Celebrating self-care is love that’s never wasted. Try new places and pleasures on Valentine’s, and embrace your own energy.
Romantic dates and roses often rule Valentine’s rhetoric. The occasion is coming along, and you can’t deny that you’re dreaming of the sweetest surprise, but your being single is getting in the way. You gather yourself, thinking that this celebration is only for couples.
Solitude doesn’t have to be defined that way though. In fact, if you treat it as power, it can help you move forward. You can go to places and connect with people, enjoy your space, and explore the parts of you that you haven’t pursued before. After all, being single means spontaneity, self-discovery, and chasing your dreams—three things that are sweeter than surprise.
Not partnered? Not pressured. Freedom feels fuller when you frame it differently. Instead of doom-scrolling through soft-launch leads and candlelit couple photos, prioritize yourself over and over. It’s progress and not pressure, so skip the self-pity and take pleasure in your personal pursuits.
If romance is red this season, try rewriting it in your own rhythm. Scroll down for some solo-date suggestions that celebrate independence and care toward oneself.
Related story: Beauty buys worth investing in this Valentine’s Day
Related story: Hate V-Day? Here’s your anti-Valentine’s watchlist to keep you company
Nourish in nature
Adventure awakens awareness. If you’ve been craving clarity and cardio. Book a trail day at Masungi Georeserve in Rizal. Designed for thrill and therapy, this sanctuary boasts suspension bridges, limestone peaks, and lush sights that stretch all throughout the area. Climb with caution and bask in your own brave. Nature resets the nervous system, so a solo (and careful) hike can quiet your doubts and questions—one trail at a time.
Find freedom in food
Valentine’s in the city can take you wandering through a host of food hotspots. Marvel at Maginhawa‘s sustainable menus in Quezon City, Binondo‘s delectable Chinese delights in Manila, or Poblacion‘s palate-driven pulse in Makati. Order solo. Order a second serving. Order something you’ve never tried before—sweet, savory, or spicy! Treat yourself to decadent drinks, too—be it tea, coffee, or a craft cocktail.
Stargaze and socialize
If you haven’t been to a stargazing session before, gather your guts and join one just because. Bring your friends or catch up with a fresh-faced circle of star seekers. Amid telescopes and astronomy talks, you might figure out that fascination and meaningful discussions are more dreamy than babe time. Whether sparks fly or friendships form, the sky provides a new perspective. Search for some local groups like Manila Street Astronomers and watch out for their sky-watching trips.
Related story: The single girl’s guide to Valentine’s Day
Related story: The single girl’s guide to starting your jewelry collection
Claim self-care
Valentine’s Day is your high time to honor and pamper yourself with a purpose. Book a full-body massage, schedule a manicure, or go to the derma for a grand beauty day. You can also choose to sit still, slow down, and savor the day—however comfort and self-care looks like for you. When the world whispers “look for someone,” let your spa day say “find yourself.” Free up you calendar and check out New Lounge‘s top-to-toe wellness wonders: eyelash extensions, ice baths, IV drips, and many more!
Enroll in a creative course
If you are especially drawn to your artistic or athletic desires, a craft or sports class is your perfect companion. Attend a pottery crash course at Wabi Sabi, a bouldering class at Climb Central Manila, or a paint-and-sip party at Sip & Gogh. Meet some makers and maybe mingle with other singles, or share your own talent with your co-creatives. True confidence comes by when you let yourself be, staying in touch with your hobbies, and taking some precious time to pursue your passions and unlock possibilities.
Related story: Single in the cities: This time it’s personal
Related story: Single and not ready to mingle? Study shows people who love ‘alone time’ have stronger brains
